Stephen King's "On Writing": Quotes and the Writing Life

King's book gave me so many impressions. It made me want to start reading his novels and those of his wife, Tabitha King. As I read the book, I just kept thinking how Stephen and Tabitha are true #relationship goals. I was in awe of how supportive they are of each other's work. I have only ever heard of married writers with unsuccessful marriages such as that of Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes. Plath is my favorite writer and her life still haunts me to the point that I try my best to avoid anything that reminds me of her life (love life in particular). Either way, it was a pleasure reading about Stephen's relationship with his wife, but I also enjoyed his advice on writing and I found myself agreeing and reflecting on most of it (which is why it took me almost two months to finish the book and this blog post). So, for this post, I will make commentary on some of the quotes that most intrigued me.On the importance of companionship and his wife: 

"And whenever I see a first novel dedicated to a wife (or a husband), I smile and think, There's someone who knows. Writing is a lonely job. Having someone who believes in you makes a lot of difference. They don't have to make speeches. Just believing is usually enough."  (74). 

After reading this, I thought "Stephen King is a hopeless romantic!" I was surprised to find out that he is a hopeless romantic, especially because that is something you probably wouldn’t think a horror writer would be. But to Stephen King, there is lots of love beyond his horror stories. Truth be told, writers don't ask for much (at least I don't), sometimes it's hard for us to start a piece but once we have the support of someone, once someone believes that we can create something worth reading, that is what keeps us writing. After all, Tabitha was the one who encouraged Stephen to continue working on Carrie, his first novel. Besides being one of his most well-known works, Carrie was turned into a movie starring John Travolta. This book reveals the backstory of how he started to write Carrie and how it changed the life of Stephen and his family. 

"My wife is the person in my life who's most likely to say I'm working too hard, it's time to slow down, stay away from that damn PowerBook for a little while, Steve, give it a rest." (267).

He writes about meeting his wife (hint, hint: in a writing class!) As you can probably tell by now, I enjoyed reading anything he had to say about his relationship. Although it’s not necessarily on writing, it’s relevant because writers do need someone, whether it be a muse or a motivator. Behind every successful writer is someone who believes in them. On Writing: 

"The idea that creative endeavor and mind-altering substances are entwined is one of the great pop-intellectual myths of our time. The four twentieth-century writers whose work is most responsible for it are probably Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Sherwood Anderson, and the poet Dylan Thomas." (98). 

In this section, he talks about the writer and substance abuse. Yes, there are studies that creative people are most likely to suffer from addiction or from a mental illness, but that doesn't mean that because you’re an artist that you have to experience it at some point in your life. This, of course, varies on the person and how easy it is to influence them to a lifestyle of addiction.

"It starts with this: put your desk in the corner, and every time you sit down to write, remind yourself why it isn't in the middle of the room. Life isn't a support-system for art. It's the other way around." (101). 

This quote really hit me because it is something that I have thought about and something that I have spoken about recently with one of my college English professors. With all honesty, I'm conflicted about receiving my Master's. Not because I don't want one, but because I want two. I want to study Special Education, but I would also like an MFA in Creative Writing. I've been thinking about doing my Special Education degree first so once I get a stable job, I can go back to school and work on my writing. My professor even thought that was a wise idea. I know I do want to obtain a CELTA certification and I want to teach ELS students, especially those who have Spanish as their native language. So if anything, that is my first plan before getting my Master’s. Post-graduation life is full of decisions and financial planning.

"Put your vocabulary on the top shelf of your toolbox, and don't make any conscious effort to improve it. (You'll be doing that as you read, of course. . . but that comes later.) One of the really bad things you can do to your writing is to dress up the vocabulary, looking for long words because you're maybe a little bit ashamed of your short ones." (117). 

This quote also really hit me because it is something that I keep on wondering about. I always ask myself, “Is my writing good enough? Is my vocabulary advanced enough? I have a degree, shouldn’t I have stronger words for everything I write about?” After reading this, sometimes the words you have are enough. When you can’t find the right word, (which happens a lot) you will go in search of it, whether it’s in a dictionary or in a thesaurus, or in a magazine that happens to be right in front of you. Of course, there is nothing wrong with learning new words, but you don’t have to find a word that you might think is impressive and then forget the meaning of it the next day. Really, your vocabulary changes and expands over time as you write and read (mostly read).

"The object of fiction isn't grammatical correctness but to make the reader welcome and then tell a story. . . to make him/her forget, whenever possible, that he/ she is reading a story at all." (134). Once again, it’s always the grammar that gets me (and I’m an English major). I always need to remember to focus on the story before fixing grammar and editing. I think it’s best to just write and do not care about grammar or spelling (at least for the first draft), write your heart out and once the story seems clear to you, then you can focus on grammar and all writing mechanics.

"The most interesting situations can usually be expressed as a What-if question." (169). 

Ah! The origin of most ideas, the "What if" question. I learned about this in my writing classes and it is true. The question that keeps the plot going is "what if." Sometimes our ideas are based on our lives, on the decisions, we decided not to make, but when we ask "what if?" the possibilities are endless. They may inspire us to create a story as we daydream or for a novel, story, poem, etc. “What if” also leads to the exploration of ideas whether they are meant for creative writing or not.

"This first draft- the All-Story draft- should be written with no help (or interference) from anyone else." (209). 

I do somewhat agree with this, although for someone who is writing their first novel it may be tempting to ask someone to make sure if they are working on their novel correctly. There is no right way to write a novel. I mean if there was, wouldn’t all novels be the same? What does exist though, are guidelines, methods, and articles for writing a novel. Sure, you can use them to help guide you but your book should mainly be your work of creation.

"With six weeks' worth of recuperation time, you'll also be able to see any glaring holes in the plot or character development." (213). 

This may be advice you may or may not want to take, it really is optional. I do think I will use this in the future though, and I noticed that I have been using this method (except lasting over six weeks most of the time) for my poetry. I sometimes go back on some poems that I have written over a year ago and either change them or abandon them (it’s a poet thing). I think you can also use this method when you feel uninspired after writing something, take some time off and then come back to it (whether it’s in a week or in a year, that’s your choice).

"Writing isn't about making money, getting famous, getting dates, getting laid, or making friends. In the end, it's about enriching the lives of those who will read your work, and enriching your own life, as well." (269). 

I think this is the perfect quote to end the post (and it was to end the book). In the end, if we are writing for the right reasons, it is because we enjoy it and we want to improve. Maybe you could have used writing to get lucky with a person, but if you are serious about writing, you do it despite the rewards that are given. There are some, but they are hard to obtain, and they do require a lot of hard work. This also reminds me that yesterday was National Day on Writing, and this book has been one of the many reminders on #whyiwrite. 

I made it after all!!

On May 7, 2017,  I finally graduated College. I officially have a Bachelor of Arts Degree with Distinction  in English  and Honors (something I never thought I would achieve in my life— the Honors and Distinction part). Quick story about my academic life: I was never on the Honor roll in elementary school, in fact, I was that kid that would go to summer school. I did not misbehave in any way, school was just difficult for me (especially math). I also struggled with ADHD. During my Junior year of high school, it was up to me to change my attitude towards school and that was when I decided to dedicate the rest of my high school years to "fixing" my grades (I remember listening to "Change" by Taylor Swift— I also listened to it as I was studying for my last finals this past semester.). It wasn't until the summer of my freshman year of college that I decided to give medication a try. After a week of taking medication, I quit the medication because I would frequently receive headaches. Soon, I knew I was to handle this without medicine. After changing my major so many times, I decided to give in to my passion for writing, and I majored in English. I became a Writing concentration— what I should have been since the beginning. Since then, I was nominated to be in the Honors Program and was given a very generous scholarship that covered the tuition of the second semester (Junior year). Not only that— but with the extra money that I had from my scholarship, I was able to study abroad to France! Indeed, I have been very blessed and I am so glad that changing my attitude towards school and improving my grades led to this. Also, throughout my years, one song that I would listen to for motivation was "Love is all around," the theme song of the Mary Tyler Moore Show! So of course, decorating my cap to say "I made it after all!" was very meaningful to me (I bet very few people knew about this show since it's from the 70's).

So the ceremony went great! Well, it was crowded, but everything turned out beautifully. I did not think I was going to tear up, but when I saw my name on the Graduation booklet, and saw that I was one of ten students in a class of about 400 to graduate with both Honors and Distinction, I could not hold my tears any longer. When I went up to receive my diploma, I may or may not have walked by very fast across the stage in attempt to not be the center of attention for long. After the ceremony, I took pictures with my friends outside, and here is one of the many beautiful photos, with my fellow English Major friends: 

Eventually, I was reunited with my family and we went Downtown Chicago to take pictures by Buckingham fountain (it was freezing, and I only had my gown for warmth!) Here is my attempt of trying to do the "hat up in the air" Mary Tyler Moore pose: 

When I got home, I went outside with my sister to take more picture, and here's a picture of me looking like I'm off to save the literary world (well maybe not save it, but help spread it!) 

Now that I am someone with an English degree, I promise to spread literature and share it with others for the rest of my life. 💓💙💚💛💜